just yesterday, i saw our parenting coordinator for the first meeting. after an introduction, he realized that he knew my ex-wife from another case in which her now husband is involved in with his ex-wife. let me explain this again, he is the coordinator for my ex-wife's husband, and i didn't know it at the time when he was appointed. after this was found out, it was like i didn't exsist. anything and everything i tried to say, was played down, or totally ignored. i am the sole custodial parent and the one that set the parenting coordinator into action. she first denied the coordinator that my atty. recommended, so why should i care who it is, so i agreed to the one that she and her atty recommended. at the meeting, all she requested was more visitation during the week, ie. one mid-week night. he asked why i didn't want this, and i tried to answer, and he interurpted me not once but twice. telling me he had heard these things before, (routine, structure) and told me that he will change them just to try to make things work for the parents. i had a hard time with that, so i added that my son sleeps on the either the floor or the couch when he is over there. he looked me square in the eye and said that he has slept on the sofa many nights and it can be comfortable. then asked her if my son has a bed, her reply was, in her husband's youngest boy's room, a bunk bed. he said there you go. i knew that was a lie, so afterwards, i asked my son, who is 8, where the bed is that they offer him. he told me in his half-sister's bedroom who is 13. unbelievable. after all this, he awarded her with wednesday nights, and also an extra overnight for the weekend. i totally felt like this was a bias decision, and felt attacked throughout the meeting. and also he kept bringing up the other case for my ex's husband, throughout the entire meeting too. my question is two part. i am going to object to this, what happens when i do that, and how do i get rid of this coordinator?