# Abuse of Order

**URL:** https://forum.rosen.com/t/abuse-of-order/7455
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers
**Created:** [July 12, 2007, 8:06am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/abuse-of-order/7455 "2007-07-12T08:06:57Z")
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### Author: ![nowinsituation](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/f07891/32.png) [@nowinsituation](https://forum.rosen.com/u/nowinsituation)
#### Post date: [July 12, 2007, 8:06am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/abuse-of-order/7455/1 "2007-07-12T08:06:57Z")

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Please. Someone tell me what I can do. Court ordered me to pay 50% of extracurricular expenses when the income disparity is in excess of 20,000 per month. I have no chance with this judge as I have already tried to get the percentage reduced. The ex is abusing this ruling…charges me for haircuts, shoes, recreational expenses, and gifts that he buys…and if I don’t pay, he takes me to Court and the Court orders me to pay, but not him! He refuses to reimburse me for any expenses…states he does “not accept” my expenses!