# Adultery during separation in NC

**URL:** <https://forum.rosen.com/t/adultery-during-separation-in-nc/15270>\
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\
**Created:** [September 23, 2013, 8:30pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/adultery-during-separation-in-nc/15270 "2013-09-23T20:30:57Z")\
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**Author:** ![P\_V\_Mom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8e7dd6/32.png) [@P\_V\_Mom](https://forum.rosen.com/u/P_V_Mom)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2013, 8:30pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/adultery-during-separation-in-nc/15270/1 "2013-09-23T20:30:57Z")

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I just found out that my husband has been having an affair with a woman living abroad and not a US citizen for thepast 5 months. We started separation on August 1, 2013 and have two children who live with me. He has tried to press me to finish separation sooner. Is there a way to make sure the foreign national is not able to enter the US on any visa until divorce is final? And how? Is a lawyer in the position to write a letter to the consulate in the country the adulterer is. There are lot of reasons US tourist visas are refused and, I am sure this is a good one.

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**Author:** ![Kathleen\_Putiri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/57b2e6/32.png) [@Kathleen\_Putiri](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Kathleen_Putiri)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2013, 10:37pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/adultery-during-separation-in-nc/15270/2 "2013-09-23T22:37:52Z")

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I don’t believe that would be a reason to deny a tourist visa, but the issuance of tourist visas are outside of the scope of this forum.