Aoa post separation additional info

I wasn’t seeing anyone when my husband left. Also, I was the one who told him to leave after we had an argument. I think he was waiting on me to tell him to leave so he could say that I initiated this. Anyway, didn’t know if this additional info made any difference. Some lessons in life you learn the hard way. And to anybody who is tempted to be unfaithful, don’t. It is a big big mistake.