I understand that you are quite upset with the whole situation. However, you are causing yourself some other issues. First of all, you should have never gone to that woman’s house, let alone start a fight. You’re saying that your husband mistreats your son. Those actions from you hurt him also. You are nothing more than showing your MALE child that when you don’t get the response that you want that you’re supposed to hit. Just what do you really think the other woman was gonna tell you? If this woman wants your husband. Let her have him. You have to be the bigger person in all of this because you are the one who must be responsible. You said yourself that you have been with him off and on. Being a parent is for keeps. Don’t worry about the money that he makes. Worry about what you have and what you can do for you. Because if you keep going on like this, putting your hands on someone because they gave you the answer that you went over there to get. You will be fighting for more than that man! The fight of your life will be keeping your child. Two wrongs don’t make a right. You have more to loose than money.