Dear Atpeace:
Greetings. Clearly your spouse falls into the category of “sore loser.” When parties have a highly contested custody issue where a trial is necessary, if the order is not drafted correctly and/or a parent coordinator is not assigned, then yes, it may often flare up again in a year or so.
Before your husband can take you back to court for child custody, he would have to prove that there was a substantial change in circumstances that negatively impacts the child(ren). There is no specific waiting time for this.
I cannot speak for the judges, but I would assume that it does irritate them to have to see the same parties in their courtroom again. When judges talk about “case building” they usually mean living your life and keeping records as if tomorrow will be another court hearing.
Let your ex live in anger and hostility - it will give him heart disease or something else. You just enjoy your child and do the best you can to parent her. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
704.307.4595 main fax
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