# Child Support / Alimony

**URL:** <https://forum.rosen.com/t/child-support-alimony/4421>\
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\
**Created:** [April 23, 2007, 10:26am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/child-support-alimony/4421 "2007-04-23T10:26:13Z")\
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**Author:** ![needinganswers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/35a633/32.png) [@needinganswers](https://forum.rosen.com/u/needinganswers)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 10:26am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/child-support-alimony/4421/1 "2007-04-23T10:26:13Z")

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The only solution is to take it to the courts if you have sufficient cause for reduction. I would consult a lawyer. If she doesn’t agree to what you’ve asked, then you have no choice. You’re bound by your agreement until you have it modified-period. If you default, then you can get into trouble. If you haven’t gotten divorced yet, then address the issues at the same time.

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**Author:** ![Helena\_Nevicosi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/db5fbb/32.png) [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2007, 10:44am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/child-support-alimony/4421/2 "2007-05-29T10:44:23Z")

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If you have a Separation Agreement, you probably cannot modify alimony, unless the Agreement permits you to do so. If your income has changed 15% or more, you can file a lawsuit for child support and the court may reduce your obligation.

Helena M. Nevicosi  
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**Author:** ![asmostrousjr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/779978/32.png) [@asmostrousjr](https://forum.rosen.com/u/asmostrousjr)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2007, 2:09pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/child-support-alimony/4421/3 "2007-04-20T14:09:37Z")

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In our separation papers, the combination of child support & alimony amounted to 35% of my salary. After a job change, this amount would now be for 59% of my salary. I have asked my ex-spouse for a reduction in child support & alimony for a total amounting to 42% of my current salary. She is not accepting this offer. Do you have a a suggestion?  
Thanks…
