# Coaching **URL:** \ **Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\ **Created:** [April 20, 2006, 2:32pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/coaching/3204 "2006-04-20T14:32:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JanetFritts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d2c977/32.png) [@JanetFritts](https://forum.rosen.com/u/JanetFritts)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2006, 2:32pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/coaching/3204/1 "2006-04-20T14:32:55Z")
Dear onedad: Greetings. Do you have a custody order or a separation agreement? Janet L. Fritts Attorney with Rosen Law Firm 4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500 Raleigh, North Carolina 27607 919.787.6668 main phone 919.256.1665 direct fax 301 McCullough Drive Suite 510 Charlotte, North Carolina 28262 704.644.2831 main voice 704.307.4595 main fax 1829 East Franklin Street, Bldg 600 Chapel Hill, NC 27514 919.321.0780 main phone 919.787.6668 main fax > **[North Carolina Divorce Law - Legal Answers and Info](https://www.rosen.com/)** > > The best resource for divorce in NC. Find accurate, legal, family law advice from attorneys practicing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill. The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. ---
**Author:** ![onedad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b5ac83/32.png) [@onedad](https://forum.rosen.com/u/onedad)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2006, 10:46am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/coaching/3204/2 "2006-04-21T10:46:23Z")
yes, we have joint legal custody, mom is primary ---
**Author:** ![JanetFritts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d2c977/32.png) [@JanetFritts](https://forum.rosen.com/u/JanetFritts)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2006, 10:37pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/coaching/3204/3 "2006-05-14T22:37:55Z")
Dear onedad: Greetings. Depending on your order, and the language in the same, you may be able to have a recourse by filing a Motion to Show Cause. However, your wife is correct that your child has no options in this case, as he does not get to make decisions about where he lives and goes - that is the option of the parents, or if they cannot agree, the court. Thank you. Janet L. Fritts Attorney with Rosen Law Firm 4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500 Raleigh, North Carolina 27607 919.787.6668 main phone 919.256.1665 direct fax 301 McCullough Drive Suite 510 Charlotte, North Carolina 28262 704.644.2831 main voice 704.307.4595 main fax 1829 East Franklin Street, Bldg 600 Chapel Hill, NC 27514 919.321.0780 main phone 919.787.6668 main fax > **[North Carolina Divorce Law - Legal Answers and Info](https://www.rosen.com/)** > > The best resource for divorce in NC. Find accurate, legal, family law advice from attorneys practicing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill. The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. ---
**Author:** ![onedad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b5ac83/32.png) [@onedad](https://forum.rosen.com/u/onedad)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2006, 5:21am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/coaching/3204/4 "2006-04-18T05:21:06Z")
My son, 11, has expressed a desire to spend more time at Dads house. He has told me that his mother has told him “he can’t live with Dad until your 18.” Do I have any legal recourse over such coaching, this is not the only instance.