If he is in arrears that much persue the support for your child, allowing a person to not assume the responsibility of their own flesh and blood is is outright wrong. Where you might want to do something nice for the child but can’t when if the child was recieving the support by both parents he benifits both now and in the future. I want to say the courts will help you but it can be frustrating but you should persue the obligation. email at det37@msn if I can help point you to some resources that you may not know about for help.
Disbelief in the system