Destructive mates/vengance


Dear ktazzette:

Greetings. It is important for me to know why you are so sure he will destroy everything. Is he physically abusive?

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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What do you do when you know the moment you tell your husband you are no longer happy and want a divorce, he will start to destroy everything, stalk me and become vengeful. He will destroy anything and everything he can unless I get it out before I tell him and hide from him.
If I leave will I lose my home as well as the equity we have obtained in the home, would this be desertion or what? And what if you are afraid he will destroy the home after you leave it, to make sure you have nothing in the end.I am so lost