Dragging feet


#1

Spouse is dragging feet on negotiating Separation Agreement. We are both residing in our home. He said he will separate with out a fight but he is not even negotiating. I have started pulling paperwork regarding mortgage, debt, etc so that we may make intelligent decisions. He thinks I am moving too fast. I need to get this started. I think he is stalling because he is hoping that we get back together. I told him I want this to be amicable because neither one of us have done anything wrong regarding the end of the divorce. The longer he waits though the more disgusted I get.


#2

You may benefit by actually creating a separation agreement and putting a proposal in front of him for him to respond to. You can’t force him to negotiate so the more serious you make him realize you are, the more he may actually discuss it with you.