# Ed help
**URL:** https://forum.rosen.com/t/ed-help/4923
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers
**Created:** [August 24, 2007, 7:30am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/ed-help/4923 "2007-08-24T07:30:08Z")
**Posts on this page:** 3
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### Author:  [@Golfball](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Golfball)
#### Post date: [August 24, 2007, 7:30am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/ed-help/4923/1 "2007-08-24T07:30:08Z")
If you feel you’ve reached the end of your rope in regards to trying to get a separation agreement & property settlement done, filing for E/D is always an option.
Depending on how much is at stake, however, it may cost you more in attorney’s fees to file for E/D than your share of the marital estate is worth.
For _some_ assets, you may be able to file an action for partition after divorce, though.
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### Author:  [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2007, 2:55pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/ed-help/4923/2 "2007-08-27T14:55:02Z")
If you cannot reach an agreement, your option would be to file a lawsuit and ask the court to make an equitable distribution of your property.
Helena M. Nevicosi
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### Author:  [@nicky28](https://forum.rosen.com/u/nicky28)
#### Post date: [August 23, 2007, 7:45pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/ed-help/4923/3 "2007-08-23T19:45:55Z")
I am confused. If my ex will not agree on ED - he wants it all - what would be the next step? Do you have to go to court or is there anything that can be done before having to go to court. I am not asking for much, in fact it would be like a 70/30 split with him getting 70%. I just want to move on and am willing to give him most of the stuff; however, I am not willing to give him all of it. He does not want to hire an attorney and so far has done everything on his own and my attorney will not negotiate with him.