# Equitable distribution/more

**URL:** <https://forum.rosen.com/t/equitable-distribution-more/5188>\
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\
**Created:** [October 26, 2007, 1:45pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/equitable-distribution-more/5188 "2007-10-26T13:45:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![Helena\_Nevicosi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/db5fbb/32.png) [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2007, 1:45pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/equitable-distribution-more/5188/1 "2007-10-26T13:45:50Z")

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This is for illustrative purposes only, I do not know if this settlement is fair and reasonable in your case because I have not reviewed your financial information. If the total that you own is 70,000 it would generally be divided this way.

40,000 in total retirement means you should each get $20,000 in retirement. Retirement funds have different tax conseqences and are generally treated differently.

$30,000 in equity in the home means you should each get $15,000, however because you are paying $5,000 more in debt than he is, you are entitled to receive $5,000 more than him. Which means you get $20,000 in equity and he gets $10,000. The total to him between retirement and house equity is $30,000.

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**Author:** ![AnneW](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9d8465/32.png) [@AnneW](https://forum.rosen.com/u/AnneW)\
**Post date:** [October 26, 2007, 12:29pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/equitable-distribution-more/5188/2 "2007-10-26T12:29:59Z")

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So that I can understand this, I want to use figures because I’m still having trouble following:  
If there is $30,000 equity in the house, $30,000 in my retirement account, $10,000 in a 401K. Total equity = $70,000. His debt is about $10,000. My debt is about $15,000 which includes a car loan. Do you say the Equity is $70,000 and subtract out the total combined debt of $25,000? This would leave $45,000 to split? So if his 1/2 is $22,500 and I want to keep the house and keep my retirement intact, I would need to come up with that amount to pay him out?

Thanks so much! This is tricky to follow!
