Equitable Distribution question

I am completing the Equitable Distribution Affidavit on my own without lawyer representation (I can no longer afford one). My question is how do I figure out the Fair Market Value of assets on the Date of Separation and DOS Net Value when DOS was over a year ago?

Also, how would I account for depreciation that our marital home took a hit on in this economy?

Use your best estimate of what you think the assets are worth based on your knowledge of the area and comps.

Another question along those same lines that I need to specify on the ED regarding my income:

Now, how do I explain that on my ED Affidavit, and how do I get out of this vicious cycle?

Child support is a separate issue that is not dealt with in connection with ED.