# Extracurricular activities **URL:** \ **Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\ **Created:** [May 22, 2008, 9:15pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/extracurricular-activities/6025 "2008-05-22T21:15:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Helena\_Nevicosi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/db5fbb/32.png) [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2008, 9:15pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/extracurricular-activities/6025/1 "2008-05-22T21:15:38Z")
I’m sorry but I’m not sure what your question is. Your order may indeed be unfair, I could not tell you for sure without reviewing it. P.S. Please feel free to bring up this or any other topic on our live call-in show every Wednesday at 11:00 a.m. EST. Visit [radio.rosen.com/live](http://radio.rosen.com/live) for details Helena M. Nevicosi Attorney with Rosen Law Firm 4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500 Raleigh, North Carolina 27607 919.787.6668 main phone 919.787.6361 main fax Charlotte Office 301 McCullough Drive Suite 510 Charlotte, NC 28262 Main Phone: (704)307.4600 Main Fax: (704) 9343.0044 Durham & Chapel Hill Office 1829 East Franklin Street Building 600 Chapel Hill, NC 27514 (919) 321.0780 > **[North Carolina Divorce Law - Legal Answers and Info](https://www.rosen.com/)** > > The best resource for divorce in NC. Find accurate, legal, family law advice from attorneys practicing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill. The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service only, a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. The information posted on this forum is available for public viewing and is not intended to create an attorney client relationship with any individual. These answers are provided for informational purposes only, a person should consult with their own individual legal counsel before taking any action that could affect their legal rights or obligations. ---
**Author:** ![momsdaughter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@momsdaughter](https://forum.rosen.com/u/momsdaughter)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2008, 6:34pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/extracurricular-activities/6025/2 "2008-05-22T18:34:33Z")
Ms.Nevicosi: I signed no order agreeing to share extracurricular activities 50%. The judge in my case ordered it. My ex signed my child up for many activities without my agreement and I was subsequently ordered to pay it. In other words, the ex had free reign to spend my money. And he did. As I stated, the ex does NOT have to reimburse me for my expenses, but I have to reimburse him. I think I read somewhere where a judge can set these kinds of expenses as he “deems appropriate” but I hope I am wrong. Anyway, I have quit paying the ex who has substantially more income than I do because the ex owes me over 1000.00 that the judge ignored. I honestly think I’d rather go to jail than pay these things. My own children have seen the orders in my case and their response was “Dang, Mom.” I received as little as possible and no one, no one understands this. I have NO answers!