In the state of North Carolina can a friendly lawsuite be used to force a couple into a seperation agreement?
My husband has moved out of the home we were living in and is putting presure on me to file legal seperation paperwork in court before a judge. In Nc I know that is not required. We had plans to move out of state and I am continuing to follow those plans. We have 4 kids and because of his addiciton issuse I have always been the primary custodial parent. He has agreed to work with me, giving me child support, permission to leave the state, ect…
Let me be clear I do not want a divorce. I feel that more time is needed before decisions like that are made. However when I told him I would fight a speration/going before a judge because I feel it to be uneccisary (we have been seperated before and always were able to work well together) he told me that he would file a friendly lawsuite and I would have no choice but to agree to the terms he set and legal seperation. Is this true?