Greetings. First, thank you for serving in our military. Second, there is no such thing as a “golddiggers law.” What you need to do is hire an attorney and file a claim for equitable distribution. Send her a letter telling her that you intend to be separated as of today and also changed your direct deposit. Also, if you gave her a power of attorney, have your attorney revoke the same in the county where you resided.
I am sorry to hear about this situation, but keep your head up!
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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