# He is still not visiting **URL:** \ **Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\ **Created:** [April 1, 2008, 6:23pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/he-is-still-not-visiting/5812 "2008-04-01T18:23:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Helena\_Nevicosi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/db5fbb/32.png) [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2008, 6:23pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/he-is-still-not-visiting/5812/1 "2008-04-01T18:23:46Z")
It is unfortunate that he chooses not to spend time with his children. You can bring this issue up with the judge, but the judge cannot force him to have visitation. I am sorry for your situation. Helena M. Nevicosi Attorney with Rosen Law Firm 4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500 Raleigh, North Carolina 27607 919.787.6668 main phone 919.787.6361 main fax Charlotte Office 301 McCullough Drive Suite 510 Charlotte, NC 28262 Main Phone: (704)307.4600 Main Fax: (704) 9343.0044 Durham & Chapel Hill Office 1829 East Franklin Street Building 600 Chapel Hill, NC 27514 (919) 321.0780 > **[North Carolina Divorce Law - Legal Answers and Info](https://www.rosen.com/)** > > The best resource for divorce in NC. Find accurate, legal, family law advice from attorneys practicing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill. The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service only, a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. The information posted on this forum is available for public viewing and is not intended to create an attorney client relationship with any individual. These answers are provided for informational purposes only, a person should consult with their own individual legal counsel before taking any action that could affect their legal rights or obligations. ---
**Author:** ![MyKidzMom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e19adc/32.png) [@MyKidzMom](https://forum.rosen.com/u/MyKidzMom)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/he-is-still-not-visiting/5812/2 "2008-03-31T08:38:15Z")
Ex got supervised visits a couple of months ago. He finally called the place to set up the visits. He went in for the meeting and his wife went with him altho he was told that she can not visit so there was really no need for her to come to the meeting. THEY told the lady they do not want to do week days because of how far they have to drive so it was kept on Saturdays. IF he would do during the week he could go to his brothers after work, take a shower and NOT have to drive as far. Well at the meeting THEY told the lady that they do not want to start the visits now since they do not have an order in hand to visit with the chiild. The judge ordered this in open court and he has had 2/3 months to get a copy in hand. We go back to court next month to see how the visits are going. Any opinions? Any ideas? This REALLY confusses me since he started out asking for custody when I did the custody/CS then in mediation said he was willing to do supervised visits.