I live in RI. My husband has thretened me with seperation. I need some help in what to do? We have 3 children who he says at one time he whant’s then other times he whant’s to give up. what to do. His familay lives in NY and he wants to go back I’m afaid he will take the kids he is very verbally,mentaly and some times physically abusive. what do I do? I have recorded conversations of his abuse as well as photos of my daughters abuse. the kids don’t want to be around him.WE also have 2 cars in our name he is the primery and I co-signer can he take the car away or re loan the cars in his name?