I need some answers

I LIVE IN ALABAMA AND WOULD LIKE TO DIVORCE MY ESTRANGED HUSBAND OF 4 YEARS. I BOUGHT ONE OF THE DO IT YOURSELF KITS ONLY PROBLEM IS I HAVE NO IDEA WHERE TO START OR WHERE HE IS LOCATED I KNOW WHAT CITY HE LIVES IN BUT DO NOT KNOW WHAT STEPS TO TAKE TO PROCEED WITH THIS DIVORCE I CAN NOT AFFORD AN ATTORNEY AND AM VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH A WONDERFUL MAN AND CAN’T PROCEED WITH OUR WEDDING UNTIL MY CURRENT HUSBAND AND I ARE DIVORCED CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME BY TELLING ME WHAT STEPS TO TAKE.[?]