You are great and I appreciate your answers. Everyone here should thank you!
My stbx thinks I cheated on him when we were together, which is not the case. Although I e-mailed and talked to the person I’m dating now 1-2 weeks prior to my separation (i.e. formally leaving the marital house and getting my own apartment), I did not physically see this person until after I was separated. This marriage was over for years, we just stayed in the same house, different rooms, etc. My ex has filed with the courts to obtain all of our phone records, e-mails and the like, so he doesn’t have to pay PSS/Alimony. I heard that if the court grants him rights to obtain the information, they will then have to file for a search warrant. Do they actually raid your home to take your computers, etc? This would be a little scary with my kids here. What can you tell me about this? Also, what are the odds of the courts granting him rights to our personal information?