I was hoping to get some advice regarding my serious situation; here are the details in short:
The mother and I have been severely estranged since the pregnancy; she and I had dates were never in a relationship.
Child has reached the legal age.
Payed child support for 10 years, had visitation however, mother closed the case and subsequently refused/stopped communicating.
During the past decade, I’ve made countless respectful attempts to communicate so that she and I could resolve our differences in a mature and adult-like manner however, she remains uncooperative and irrational. We live in different states about 2 days drive from each other. The standard stuff that goes along with a situation like this exists i.e. criminal conversation, mother vilifying the father, etc. it’s become quite nasty.
I guess I’m looking for a mediator of some sort, someone that could assist. Meeting my son should be a joyous occasion; unfortunately, the mother only wants everyone to be miserable.
Would appreciate some good advice here.