Is there such a thing? I will be frank and tell you my goals:
1.) I want to keep everything I have bought and give her nothing I have bought.
2.) I do not want her to benefit from my financial well being in any way shape or form.
3.) I want full custody of my 2 children.
The fact is my wife is spoiled and lazy. I have hoped for years and years that she could evolve into a decent human being but the fact is that she is becoming more and more worthless every day. No, I haven’t told her that as I am sure that would be turned into some kind of mental abuse claim but facts are facts. She makes no contribution to the family other than doing laundry. That’s it. She quit a decent paying job a few years ago to pursue what she “wanted” to do and took a serious financial income loss in doing so. This was done recklessley and without any concerns for the well being of the family. I on the other hand go out of my way to maintain a good living. I don’t WANT to do it but this is what has to be done to make it happen so I just do it despite the fact that I hate doing it. She refuses to have the same ambition.
I could go on for many pages but I will stick to the topic. I don’t feel like her lack of willingness to be a decent person should benefit from my hard work in doing what it takes to be a decent person and a solid contributor.
So considering the goals, is there such a thing that can be done long term to insure that she does not benefit from all of my hard work if I deceide to divorce? We have been married over 10 years and maintain separate bank accounts as we always have. She doesn’t have any money, I have a decent bank account. I pay all the bills because if you tell her to pay a bill she’ll just say she doesn’t have the money. All ears here.