My daughter married a man from Bali. After two years he returned to Denpasar on the pretense of picking up his children and returning. He was already married in Indonesia and has not returned. Despite many phone calls to Indonesia she is unable to get a divorce from him or an annulment. Any advice you can give would help. We have contacted the consulate over there and he did list the other woman as his wife on his visa, but due to privacy laws or whatever we cannot get copies of this. She has paid attorneys to help her with no results. This is destroying her.
She can seek a divorce here in North Carolina and she should have a consultation with an attorney to discuss her options.