I was told to come and ask about this question: what can I do to get my family back home?
My wife left in February with our three children. She got tired of my OCD and ADHD (which I was recently diagnosed). Because of it, she had problems with the way I was treating the kids and her. Those are my babies and I miss my wife and love her so much. I just want my family home. I do not know what type of details to put in here so if anything seems vague, please let me know.
She is in Mass. With family. I am in Wake Forest. I lost my long time job in 2011 and been struggling since. All the job searching I have done, I have only a teenage wage job at a place that humans are treated poorly with many restrictions and insults. I rather be flipping burgers than doing what I am doing (I am too “over qualified” and have tried applying to even them) because this place is not “technical” by any means and if I tell you the company name, you would be appalled and probably not want t by its products anymore, which does not matter to me, just protecting your “investment” into their products if you like them. I have no money to keep up with bills. School loans in default (one has a cosigner). I have no food. I may lose the place we rent. How can I even support them if they do come back?All I do is look for a real job and keeping trying to find ways to bring my family home.
This is why I have come here. Neither of us have money to fight each other in courts for the kids. She does not have a job but am sure her family would help her, base don what she tells them. I am not a bad father or husband, but I have made many verbal type mistakes to have helped (as she is partial to blame to) in this matter. I see a therapist and physiologist now. I am taking meds again and not going tog et off them this time (until I can not longer afford an extra $15). She always said she did not want in make this complicated between us. She says she is doing all this for the kids. Well, this kids miss their daddy. I miss them. I have no money to travel to Mass. Sick days even cause you to get pointed where I am so they have more reasons to fire people. I can barely afford gas each week. I want my kids back. She has not really said if she would come home to me or not, but at this point I rather her have her own place just so the kids are closer to me. I do not want to lose her too, but if she made up her mind, then nothing I can do about it. I just want to see my babies right now. Oldest turned eight yesterday. Youngest turned two last month. I missed both. Middle one turns five in September. I have not see them since early February.
I do not know what information I can get here to maybe help me out to see my kids without making a big fight out of all this, unless that is the only choice other than sitting here lonely and doing nothing but wonder. There has been nothing signed on some paper that everyone thinks is important, and to God I hope we never do. But, I am missing my kids and I have no way getting there 900 miles away while I am stuck at a teenage wage place.
If there is additional info you need, I will certainly provide it. I do not know anything about man-made legal stuff or laws or anything. I just want my family back and see my children.