# My husband abondon us **URL:** \ **Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\ **Created:** [December 11, 2003, 2:43pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/my-husband-abondon-us/402 "2003-12-11T14:43:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Kovu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Kovu](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Kovu)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2003, 2:43pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/my-husband-abondon-us/402/1 "2003-12-11T14:43:40Z")
I can not help you. But I do know your pain. For, I feel like I have hit rock bottom most days. But can say just hold on, a change has to be coming. ---
**Author:** ![Eagle-i](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ed655f/32.png) [@Eagle-i](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Eagle-i)\ **Post date:** [December 16, 2003, 6:00pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/my-husband-abondon-us/402/2 "2003-12-16T18:00:48Z")
yeah, a change is coming. When, where, and how no one can tell you. I myself feel your pain as well. My wife just left me back in Oct. No real reason. I myself was happy with our marriage and thought she was too. Then she just called me up from her work and told me that she didn’t wanna come home. Less than a week later. She had a guy in his early 40’s for a boyfriend. Which now they live in a trailer park together. Just as if they’ve been married all along. we were together for 6 years and married 3.5 of those. And just to let you know the importance of age for her boyfriend. I’m 24 and she was 23. I can’t explain what went wrong and when. I never ever imagined her leaving me. And I still can’t imagine living life w/o her. Just take it day by day. All you can do. And try not to worry too much. Worrying doesn’t solve any thing. It only adds to the problems you already have. Although that is easier said than done. Good luck with your situation. ---
**Author:** ![JanetFritts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d2c977/32.png) [@JanetFritts](https://forum.rosen.com/u/JanetFritts)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2004, 8:34pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/my-husband-abondon-us/402/3 "2004-01-07T20:34:30Z")
Dear Dixierose: Greetings. Aren’t our forum members great? They really feel your pain and are so much support. I believe that you need to find the funds to retain an attorney, even if that means charging the fee to a credit card, equity line, or borrowing funds from your family. I would also advise you that you have the ability to go to the NC Child Support Collection Agency for assistance. Best of luck! Janet L. Fritts Attorney at Law 4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200 Raleigh, North Carolina 27607 [NCDivorce.com](http://www.NCDivorce.com) 919-787-6668 The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. ---
**Author:** ![dixierose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecccb3/32.png) [@dixierose](https://forum.rosen.com/u/dixierose)\ **Post date:** [December 8, 2003, 1:14pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/my-husband-abondon-us/402/4 "2003-12-08T13:14:45Z")
I thought we had a happy marriage. We didn’t fight, we were able to talk things out. Then last oct. he tells me he has man problems and moves in with me best friend and her three kids. Now they have a checking account toghter and are actted as if thry were married. I was working for his family, so I lost my job when he left. I’m trying to find a job, but its hard. He only gives me $40.00 an week to live off of. We have two children together and I have two for another marriage. We have been married for 6 years. I don’t have the money for a lawyer, so what can I do. Jamena McMillan