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Dear “Not Really Jarhead”:

Greetings. Please tell Jarhead to be safe in Iraq!

  1. Oh my. No he does not want to set himself up paying post separation support, the house payment, and possibly child support (if there are children). A separation agreement should be a final document, not a temporary one. He should only sign a final agreement that suits him.

  2. He should not pay her any spousal support (alimony or post separation support) if she cheated on him and has admitted the same or he has proof of the same. Best of luck.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorcecom
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


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Dear “Jarhead’s Friend”

Greetings. What is the PI investigating? He should contact his JAG office and see if they can help him obtain a restraining order against this woman.

It may be true that paying the mortgage may make him look better in the eyes of the court. He has to trust his attorney in the county where this matter will be litigated, as his attorney has his best interest at heart. Besides, if he pays the mortgage he gets the credit for any principal reduction he makes after the date of separation, so it has some value for him.

I cannot remember what the issue was with the STD, but if I said it was condonned, the information you supplied would not change my assessment. Best of luck.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


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Dear Jarhead:

Greetings. He should listen to his attorney, as that is his best connection to how the judges in his jurisdiction will view his actions. His attorney may be able to enforce the cease and desist order against his wife while he is away on his behalf. Best of luck.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#6

I don’t see your post here. Please resubmit it.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


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