# Pro se **URL:** \ **Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\ **Created:** [January 29, 2008, 7:23pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/pro-se/5549 "2008-01-29T19:23:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Helena\_Nevicosi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/db5fbb/32.png) [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 7:23pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/pro-se/5549/1 "2008-01-29T19:23:04Z")
Generally, the local rules for each county require you to confirm with the other party or attorney before scheduling a matter for hearing. If the attorney files a motion to reschedule the hearing, you should receive a copy of the notification from him. Helena M. Nevicosi Attorney with Rosen Law Firm 4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500 Raleigh, North Carolina 27607 919.787.6668 main phone 919.787.6361 main fax Charlotte Office 301 McCullough Drive Suite 510 Charlotte, NC 28262 Main Phone: (704)307.4600 Main Fax: (704) 9343.0044 Durham & Chapel Hill Office 1829 East Franklin Street Building 600 Chapel Hill, NC 27514 (919) 321.0780 > **[North Carolina Divorce Law - Legal Answers and Info](https://www.rosen.com/)** > > The best resource for divorce in NC. Find accurate, legal, family law advice from attorneys practicing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill. The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service only, a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. The information posted on this forum is available for public viewing and is not intended to create an attorney client relationship with any individual. These answers are provided for informational purposes only, a person should consult with their own individual legal counsel before taking any action that could affect their legal rights or obligations. ---
**Author:** ![cinnwall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/96bed5/32.png) [@cinnwall](https://forum.rosen.com/u/cinnwall)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 2:00pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/pro-se/5549/2 "2008-01-28T14:00:33Z")
I filed with the Clerk a motion for EQ Distribution and calendar request. I also mailed my stbx attorney the papers as well. Now, if his attorney argues or wants to change the date at all, would he notify ME? or the clerk w/ it being MY responsibility to go to the clerk to see if anything was answered or done from them?