Greetings. First, I think that your log in name is one of the most creative I have seen so far. Now, I am slightly fuzzy on the facts, but here is what I think. If you both have your name on the legal title, you are both entitled to the equity in the same. It sounds like your Grandma made a bad decision. Hopefully, your Grandma has a deed of trust and promissory note. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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