# Question

**URL:** <https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537>\
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\
**Created:** [August 17, 2006, 8:14am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537 "2006-08-17T08:14:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![patricia1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/96bed5/32.png) [@patricia1](https://forum.rosen.com/u/patricia1)\
**Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 8:14am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537/1 "2006-08-17T08:14:20Z")

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Alienation of Affection and Criminal Conversation  
North Carolina is one of the only States to allow a cause of action against a third party for interference in the marital relationship. To succeed on this claim for alienation of affection, the plaintiff must prove that (1) there was genuine affection between the spouses; (2) the spousal affection was alienated; and (3) defendant

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**Author:** ![JanetFritts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d2c977/32.png) [@JanetFritts](https://forum.rosen.com/u/JanetFritts)\
**Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 9:55am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537/2 "2006-08-17T09:55:30Z")

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Dear feleciaj:

Greetings. Yes, you can likely sue her for criminal conversation and alienation of affection. What are you doing about your husband though? I am not suggesting anything, but just wondering.

I should also say that I think it is brave and honorable that you want to have the children part of your life. That takes a lot of character.

Janet L. Fritts  
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500  
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607  
919.787.6668 main phone  
919.256.1665 direct fax

301 McCullough Drive Suite 510  
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262  
704.644.2831 main voice  
704.307.4595 main fax

1829 East Franklin Street, Bldg 600  
Chapel Hill, NC 27514  
919.321.0780 main phone  
919.787.6668 main fax

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**Author:** ![feleciaj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9dc877/32.png) [@feleciaj](https://forum.rosen.com/u/feleciaj)\
**Post date:** [August 22, 2006, 7:02am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537/3 "2006-08-22T07:02:12Z")

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Thanks for your response! Yes I’m trying to be the big person here because he and I have 4 childrens 20, 18 , 8, 8mths but he is definitily paying for his mistake’s…He knows he has 3 stricks and he’s out! The other women I’m talking about set out since 1997 to trap my husband…Get this she was the one who always call me and told me about the affair because she would threaten him that if he didn’t do this or do that that she’ll call me and tell me about the affair, the children who are 3, adn 6 years old…Now the last time in jul 05 once again she calls me because he broke it off,he told her I was pregnant. She had given him an altermative to leave me or else…I thought alination of affection the spouse had to leave the home? And the Crimnal Conversation do he have to also had left the house? This women knew we were marry due to the store she work at we had an account there, so we had to go there to pay our bills.I swear this man was so good at covering his a\*\* I didn’t know anything, because he kept it all good at home, the sex, he cook the whole 9 yards…

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**Author:** ![JanetFritts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d2c977/32.png) [@JanetFritts](https://forum.rosen.com/u/JanetFritts)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2006, 8:01pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537/4 "2006-09-06T20:01:12Z")

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Dear Feleciaj:

Greetings. No, I do not believe you have to be separated. Thank you.

Janet L. Fritts  
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500  
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607  
919.787.6668 main phone  
919.256.1665 direct fax

301 McCullough Drive Suite 510  
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262  
704.644.2831 main voice  
704.307.4595 main fax

1829 East Franklin Street, Bldg 600  
Chapel Hill, NC 27514  
919.321.0780 main phone  
919.787.6668 main fax

> **[North Carolina Divorce Law - Legal Answers and Info](https://www.rosen.com/)**
>
> The best resource for divorce in NC. Find accurate, legal, family law advice from attorneys practicing in Raleigh, Durham, Cary, and Chapel Hill.

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.

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**Author:** ![feleciaj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9dc877/32.png) [@feleciaj](https://forum.rosen.com/u/feleciaj)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 9:23pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/question/3537/5 "2006-08-16T21:23:39Z")

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My husband of 20 years had an affair that resulted in 2 kids…well I stay and we now are seeking visitation from the other wowmen…She is stating that I threaten her during the first conversation in which she herself called me and told me that they were having the affair, and her who cheated with my husband.What rights do I have and do I have anything to say about this women is apparantly still bitter, angry but is slandering my name…If she felt threaten then why not take a warrant or something out…Is there anything I can sue her for what she has done to my family…
