My husband is in the military, he has orders to attend school in VA for six months, can he establish home in VA and begin divorce proceeding with out me knowing. He is currently deployed. I recently found out that he has been hiding money from me, does he have to reveal that money since he told me that he stole the money. How long do you have to live in a state before you are considered a resident.

Each state has different requirements for how long one must live there prior to filing for divorce.

I suggest you file an action here in NC for equitable distribution to ensure you receive your share of the martial estate.