# Separation **URL:** \ **Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\ **Created:** [November 5, 2008, 6:46pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/separation/6717 "2008-11-05T18:46:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Helena\_Nevicosi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/db5fbb/32.png) [@Helena\_Nevicosi](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Helena_Nevicosi)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 6:46pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/separation/6717/1 "2008-11-05T18:46:31Z")
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**Author:** ![silvermouse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/71e660/32.png) [@silvermouse](https://forum.rosen.com/u/silvermouse)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:25pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/separation/6717/2 "2008-11-05T16:25:07Z")
With no separation agreement and a possible custody issue over a child due to parent disagreement of best interest because parent who works and goto school vs a parent who doesnt work nor can drive with no stable home. Question: Do text messages and emails of one person stating they give up one day on all rights and then change their mind the next day and back and forth repeatedly but unwilling to sign a agreement stand up if litigations occur?