It sounds like you’re in a very frustrating and confusing state of being right now. Hopefully things will turn for the better shortly. With regard to your question, since you are separate, his “estate” could file for equitable distribution within 1 year of his death. You would still be entitled to your share of the “marital estate”, i.e. 50% of the property, of his retirement acquired during your marriage, etc. Life insurance and death benefits would go to the appropriate named beneficiary.
Ketan P. Soni
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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