Greetings. First, I don’t know whether violating the SSCRA is a felony. Now, as far as the loan, I would suggest that you do the Rule 60 motion and when the divorce judgment is set aside, you file a claim for equitable distribution and ask the court to immediately have her pay for the loan and any/all past due fees on the same.
I have not read that NC ignores the SSCRA. What are you reading?
Finally, follow through on the child support, as that will not affect your divorce AS LONG AS you take immediate action (within the next week). Go to a firm that deals with divorce matters exclusively in the county where the action was filed. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607