# Transporting children to non custodial home

**URL:** <https://forum.rosen.com/t/transporting-children-to-non-custodial-home/14463>\
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\
**Created:** [October 30, 2012, 10:42pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/transporting-children-to-non-custodial-home/14463 "2012-10-30T22:42:18Z")\
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**Author:** ![cyndromeda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/77aa72/32.png) [@cyndromeda](https://forum.rosen.com/u/cyndromeda)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2012, 10:42pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/transporting-children-to-non-custodial-home/14463/1 "2012-10-30T22:42:18Z")

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my ex and i have been separated a little over a year. he moved in with a girlfriend 20 miles from here at that time. we have a verbal agreement that he picks up the kids every other weekend and has them for 2 nights. lately, he has been expecting me to pick up the girls on sunday evenings, claiming i should do it because he pays child support. i am not the one that decided to move so far out, and i don’t always have enough money for gas to drive out there. i usually fill up my tank when i get paid and i work close to home, so it can last 2 weeks if i don’t have to drive to knightdale. i already agreed to let him off $125 on child support because i did not want to wait 4 months for a court date.  
who usually pays for transportation in this situation?

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**Author:** ![Kathleen\_Putiri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/57b2e6/32.png) [@Kathleen\_Putiri](https://forum.rosen.com/u/Kathleen_Putiri)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2012, 12:47am UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/transporting-children-to-non-custodial-home/14463/2 "2012-10-31T00:47:42Z")

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There is also no “usual” for payment of transportation if there is no order stating who transports the children for custody exchanges.