In the current parenting plan it is stated that when taking the children out of state you must notify the other parent and provide information on where the children will be with appropriate contact information. It does not indicate that you must get permission. With that stated I have a concern
The STBX wants the children to go to the beach with MY aunt at a beach house that has a pool. Now please note that my Aunt has had no contact with me for over a year and a half after this has started because my wife lied to her saying I was abusive to her and the children… Which I was not…
I am being asked if it is ok for the children to go on a week that is her week not mine. I have several concerns here.
My Aunt is not physically capable of tending to the children in the event there is an emergency. She has heart issues and can barely move. So I am concerned with the children’s safety.
My own Aunt will not communicate with me based on the lies she has been told and do not know what she may say negatively to the children who are already tired of the lies.
When I say that I am not comfortable with the children going I have a feeling they will now be honest and say that my STBX wife is going to be there.
The STBX indicated in the email to me that, ’ I believe it is important for the children to have a relationship with your extended family’
With this all started what can I do? Do I have to let them go? How is it correct for my actual family (Aunt) to invite my STBX if they have and they are hiding it from me? I am certain they kids will hear things and I also do not want my STBX spreading lies to any other of my family that may be there.
I understand it is her week, but I am NOT comfortable with this at all. My Aunt is consistently talking to the STBX, sends the kids birthday and Christmas gifts to her and not me. My Aunt has already passed around these lies to many people and has defaced me to many. I am tired of her slandering me…
I also do not know what I can do to get her to stop spreading lies… Is there a stop order legally that can be done. Sue her for defamation of character?
I am done, she is supposed to be my family… Please help