Greetings. First, let me tell you that you are not alone battling weight issues. My father always tells me that it is easy to put the weight on, and an act of God to take it off. I am sure that with positive reinforcement and a self esteem boost the weight will start to come off.
Nevertheless, your husband should not be contacting women from your home. It is my opinion that he has not only abandonned you, but also constructively abandonned you.
My advice is to collect all the money you can. Go hire an attorney on the joint credit card, etc. Protect yourself and your children first. Finally, who cares what he wants. He will most likely have to pay alimony AND child support. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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