# Where do I start?

**URL:** <https://forum.rosen.com/t/where-do-i-start/7150>\
**Category:** Divorce and Separation Answers\
**Created:** [February 8, 2006, 1:20pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/where-do-i-start/7150 "2006-02-08T13:20:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![napier11706](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/a4c791/32.png) [@napier11706](https://forum.rosen.com/u/napier11706)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2006, 1:20pm UTC](https://forum.rosen.com/t/where-do-i-start/7150/1 "2006-02-08T13:20:48Z")

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I need assistance, I just moved to NC about 11 months ago. I am trying to obtain a separation from my spouse. This move to NC was supposed to make our marriage better. I did tell him if this move did not work that I would file for separation. I refuses to move out of the house because his name is on the lease, but I pay all of the bills, including the rent. What can I do? Any suggestions?