what is the rule in NC for 401k split. my husband chose not to have a 401k for years because he wanted a larger paycheck for “manly” reasons. He has one now… it’s performed well… but mine is double. It never occurred to me that my simple divorce would turn greedy and nasty. I would NEVER go after “his retirement money” because he earned it… but he’s obviously gotten some advice from ‘friends’. So what are the rules?
My understanding is the spouse with more has to make up the difference at the time of divorce between and it’s payable at age 70.5.