I filled out a separation agreement in February 2010 dividing assets. My ex and I signed it in front of a notary. The agreement that, as written right now, entitles her to a large percentage of my 401(k). At this point I don’t think that she deserves as much as is written in the agreement and would like to reduce the amount by $5000, leaving her with around $2000. She is refusing to make this change and has gone ahead in writing up the qualified domestic relations order. Will the agreement be enough for her to get a qualified domestic relations order signed by the judge or can I contest it?
Can I just refuse to sign anything related to the disbursement of the 401(k) funds until our divorce is final in June? Will the agreement be void once the divorce is final?