My STBX is telling my children that at the age of 14 they will be able to decide which parent they can live with. Is this true? Can my 14 yr old decide to just up and change who they reside with?
Also if we have an agreement we made up at time of separation(signed by both and notarized) and it states that the kids will reside at my address does that qualify as physical custody? If so, is that legally binding?