we have a complicated situation. I have a 9 month old child with a woman I never married. We signed a child custoday agreement when he was 7 months old that gave me 104 overnights a year and when he is one that goes up to 130. We are clear on the amount of child support I pay in November that is not up for debate but currently I pay $350 as this is what I calculated but she calculated almost double that. The difference is I count the days I looked after our son while she was in hospital and incapacatated - bringing my overnights for his first year to 126 (as long as nothing changes between now and November).
Another fly in this ointment is that when we were together there were a lot of nights that we spent together at either mine or hers, do those count towards anything? What is the overnights per year based on? Birthday to birthday or calendar year?
Thanks in advance