My back and forth exchange with the ex (divorced now for 4 years) escalated as spousal support ended last month and she is now saying that she intends to let my daughter get a job next summer, regardless of the court order that stated I get 30 days visitation during the summer. I’m sure that this is just in retaliation (somehow) for my ending the alimony payments per the agreed upon schedule. Is my only recourse taking her to court for contempt, or is there another way? And if so, do I actually have to wait until she refuses to allow them to visit, or is there something I could do proactively? I have to schedule vacations months in advance, so its a little late to reschedule if I have to wait until she actually fails to allow my visitation.