You have an existing court order. Arizona will no longer have jurisdiction. If you are all being “friendly” at this time and agree that your daughter should be with you in Idaho, I would recommend that you have your daughter move to Idaho and file a friendly lawsuit for custody in Idaho after six months, have your wife sign a consent for the school that your daughter is moving to Idaho. Arizona will relinquish jurisdiction based on the fact that neither you, your daughter, nor your wife live there.
Do what’s stated above, then file a lawsuit in Idaho for child custody and child support, since that will be the most appropriate state.
All of this is based on the assumption that no orders have previously been entered in North Carolina.
Hope this helps!
Ketan P. Soni
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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