Dear Train Wreck:
Greetings. Sorry to hear about the misuse of the DVPO. Here are my answers:
Yes, depending on rules of evidence. If the issue was raised to prove your conformity with that behavior, your attorney should have objected to its admissibility.
Yes, but once again it depends on rules of evidence. You may want to do a Rule 59/60 hearing based on new evidence. This is quicker than an appeal and often more effective.
You can only contact her through her attorney, your attorney, or a Sheriff. Do not contact her through anyone else and leave a message. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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