Does not sound right but, you may need to provide more info. Did you have a current address on file with the courts? Did you have your Tmp hearing? The apposing attorney is required to serve any documents to you and the courts are required to nofify you of any scheduled hearings or rulings. I would go to the clerks office at the courthouse and find out why you did not recieve notice and what you can do to appeal. If you can appeal. Keep in mind, that courts show no respect for Pro Se litigants.
It sounds to me like there was a court hearing and you somehow did not attend. Without more information it is hard to answer your question.
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I am representing myself. The Court heard a motion brought by my ex. I filed my own motion/answer and was present in Court. I received the ORDER in the mail—signed, sealed, and delivered and NEVER received notification of the rulings made! Is this right? Can the opposing party just write the ORDER and the judge sign it without me ever even seeing the rulings???