Greetings. Your husband may be able to file an action for Divorce from Bed and Board if you have committed acts of marital misconduct. Otherwise, your position is a good one. Tell him that you are not leaving, not planning on going over his list, and if he really wants to talk about divorce the first topics you will be interested in negotiating would be child support and alimony which he will need to pay to you on an ongoing basis. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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