Greetings. You should agree to a separation agreement, him refinancing, and you being paid out your share of the equity. Yes, of course you are entitled to 1/2 of the marital equity. During the separation period, your spouse can usually keep the principal reduction, but not claim the entire mortgage payment.
Yes, if he cannot refinance and you cannot move back in, and you are not willing to wait for him to refinance…then your only option is to sell.
Be careful though. If you want to let him refinance after the date of divorce, your separation agreement must be drafted very carefully to ensure that you can force a sale if he does not refinance. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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