Greetings. First, if you have lived in North Carolina for at least the last six months, your residency is here in North Carolina and our laws guide the dissolution of your marriage. Where you live, not where you were married, matters.
Next, I would tell you to review the information on alimony, child custody, child support, and divorce on our website. If you can prove that your wife is cheating on you, it may mean that she loses her rights to obtain aimony form you. Finally, talk to an attorney before you take any action, as they will be able to help you determine how to substantiate the proof that your spouse is cheating. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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