Greetings. You must notify your spouse as soon as you set the date for the hearing with the Notice of Hearing. At a minimum, she will need ten (10) days notice.
You can just mail a copy of the Notice of Hearing. Yes, you need to have three copies of the Notice of Hearing - one for your records, one for the court, and one to mail to her. You have a certificate of service on the notice of hearing which you will have to sign that shows to the judge that you mailed her a copy. Good luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
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